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Searching for Words – Listening for Whispers




As I spend the next couple hours writing, the above song is what I am listening to.

I am praying for Wisdom and searching for fruit from the Spirit.

Give me YOUR words, Lord!


Psalm 46-11

The Lord Almighty is here among us; the God of Israel is our fortress


Big Daddy Weave – Love Come To Life Lyrics

(highlights in Blue are my thoughts only)

I’ve been restless on the inside
Wondering about this heart of mine
I’ve been desperately trying to find
A way to prove that I’m still alive
Has the love I speak so loudly of quietly grown cold

(This part is my FAVORITE)
Has my life been an empty voice?
What I say needs to be seen
I need to step out and make the choice
To let go of everything (Please!)
Would you reignite this heart spark here in the dark? (Amen)

Bring your love to life inside of me
Why don’t you break my heart til it moves my hands and feet
For the hopeless and the broken
For the ones that don’t know that you love them
Bring your love to life inside of me

A generation you’re calling out
Living everything that we sing about
A revelation right here and now
Of love beyond a shadow of a doubt
Love that’s greater than our own
Won’t remain unknown, when you


Love come to life, love come to life, love come to life inside of me




Dear God,

There is truly nothing more worthwhile than finding out who we are in Christ. Understanding who you intended us to be, seeking you and letting you lead us there – Amen.

Romans 12:12

Be glad for all God is planning for you.

Be patient in trouble, and always be prayerful.






Pressures of Purity: Why it Matters



Are we really hearing her or him? Are we really hearing each other and the cries for help all around us? Or are we allowing ourselves to be blinded?

Are we crying out for help to regain our rights and the part the Purity plays?

Purity: It has to be one of the hardest virtues for us to understand and adhere to.

But Why?

I remember being a teenager and 14, 15 (the highly overrated) 16 years old and on and on….

Hormones played a role but were only part of the big picture. Being a teenager or adolescent has to be the most misunderstood frame of time in a young person’s life. I’ll admit, I had more than my share of obstacles to deal with from 13-19!

But those pressures haven’t changed for kids today. Except that technological changes and social media have made current times a landmine of even greater challenges!


No one can escape what happens to their bodies with the onset of puberty – Hormones are what make us develop into the men and women we will become. However, I am less concerned about the physiological effects of hormones on the body. Purity should be your concern, OUR concern and our FOCUS.

Purity is about:

An Attitude

A Belief

A Covenant – A promise

Societal pressures and cultural norms tend to shape our WorldView. But this is a backwards approach.

You are a person – boy or girl – with a beating heart, a mind and a soul.

You have a purpose and your attitude plays a part in that purpose.

Purity seems like such a vague term, doesn’t it? I mean, the idea of Purity seems so out of date, right?

The concept of Purity is one of them and culture wants us to believe it’s been all but lost. I tend to think that might be true, but is it? Does it have to be?

Why are we being encouraged to shed the image of purity for something else? Is there a benefit? What are the costs?

I am not writing this to start a debate. This blog has never been about “stirring the pot.”

I am writing as one member of The Church Body. In this case, Casting Crown’s song “If we are the Body” best illustrates this point



As a member, I am here to Encourage. To share what God asks me to. To help us think about our decisions and then understand WHY we did what we did? To seek God for those questions whose answers elude us.


Our behaviors our thoughts and attitudes are often influenced by other sources: movies, tv, advertising, the internet, social media. We can’t escape all of it but we do need to understand the machine and how it works.

Purity starts with the mind. It all breaks down to what you allow yourself to see and to hear. What do you pay attention to?  Purity has little to do with matters of the heart.

Our state of purity was comprised in the Garden of Eden and we’ve struggled ever since.

Purity and Spirituality go hand in hand.

Mark 7:14-15 (NLT) describes Purity

14 Then Jesus called to the crowd to come and hear. “All of you listen,” he said, “and try to understand. 15 It’s not what goes into your body that defiles you; you are defiled by what comes from your heart.[h]

What this means is that we must take our minds and focus on the Purity of God’s promises, Redemption and Mercy. The reason? Eve was PURE before the serpent approached her. He decided to lie to her and appeal to her inner desires (the heart) but proposing something that would bring her downfall. If we heed Eve’s lesson and recognize that we must protect our minds and bodies from the influences that abound we have much less chance of falling prey to the enemy’s schemes. Whether he tries to tempt us through our sexuality, drugs, or other idols.

TRUE Purity is giving Jesus the benefit of the doubt and giving Satan a kick in the rear and showing him the door.

Purity is our responsibility: Keeping our Mind, Body and Soul pure is not an old-fashioned idea. But the enemy is on the cultural bandwagon to have society think otherwise.

Please remember these words:

Galatians 5:22-23
But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!

AND these words also

Matthew 18:3 (NLT)

Then he said, “I tell you the truth, unless you turn from your sins and become like little children, you will never get into the Kingdom of Heaven.


Whether you are seeking redemption from an addiction, a habit, a hang up or struggling with food, anorexia/bulimia, loss of virginity or a host of other issues – YOU can win the struggle. Give God and Jesus a chance. There is a way. There is a light at the end of the tunnel.



Dear Father,

Thank you for your unending love. For always being willing to give us a second chance. For loving us enough in spite of our sin to gift us with your Son. While we aren’t worthy on our own you make us worthy because of your grace. Shower me, cleanse me, sanctify me and help me to STAND against the forces of evil and sin.

You are the light I want to follow, strengthen me and help me to abide in YOU. Amen.


Purity can be yours, take back from the enemy what belongs to YOU!